It’s emotional and confusing when our loved ones start showing signs of cognitive decline. As memory loss gets worse, you may begin to worry about their safety and ability to perform daily tasks like showering and paying bills. As tough as the prospect seems, there may come a time when a memory care facility is the best choice for your grandparent, parent or spouse.
How can you tell when it’s time for specialized care?
Many signs point to the need for additional assistance when a person is suffering from memory loss. Some indications are obvious, while others are more subtle.
Obvious signs may include:
- Frequent forgetfulness
Being unable to recall information like where they live, names of people they’ve known for years, family memories, and other common knowledge is typically one of the first signs of cognitive decline. - Confusion
If your loved one can’t process simple instructions like “put the milk in the refrigerator,” they may be suffering from memory loss that could threaten their safety. - Aimless wandering
Taking walks at odd hours and getting lost in places that are well-known to them is another common component that shows a person may need memory care. - Decrease in hygiene
If your loved one stops showering, wears soiled clothes, and ignores other hygienic practices, there may be a cognitive issue.
Sometimes, however, memory loss shows itself in less obvious ways, like:
- Withdrawal from socializing
A loved one dealing with cognitive decline may avoid conversations and outings where it may be noticed. - Mood changes
If a normally happy, friendly person becomes angry and easily frustrated, it could signal they are having trouble processing information. - Changes in spending habits
Large expenditures or impulsive purchases could be signs of a cognitive issue.
Why is it important to address the need for memory care early in the process?
Pinpointing a memory loss issue early is advantageous because:
- Medicine can slow down the decline.
- You can avoid safety issues that stem from your loved one being left alone.
- Financial protocols (like an extra signature being required for large expenditures) can be put in place.
- You can offer your loved one emotional support, patience and understanding.
What are some tips for transitioning a loved one to memory care?
If memory care is the best option for your loved one, be prepared for some difficult, emotional conversations. Broach the subject in a compassionate, empathetic way. Involve them in the decisions as much as possible. Take them to visit potential facilities and encourage them to ask questions. Focus on how you want them to be safe, content, and cared for during this difficult time.
Ensuring your loved one has access to specialized memory care starts by recognizing the signs. Seek support early in the process; foster open, honest conversations; and keep your patience flowing.
Check out our short survey “Is It Time for Memory Care?” to gain more insight into your situation. And, as always, you can reach out to us for more information.